Your Intimate Wellness Guru: Your Intimate Guide to Sexual Wellness
AI guide, not a doctor or medical advice. It can make mistakes. For adults 18+.
Your Intimate Wellness Guru is an AI guide from Tender Lovin’ Care for adults 18+. Ask your sexual wellness questions in a calm, judgment-free chat and get help choosing the right type of lube and intimate care product. No account is needed. Unless you tap Save chats, your chat is removed from the chat window after about 2 hours.
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AI guide, not a doctor · Adults 18+ · General education, not medical advice
What is an intimate wellness guru?
We call it a guru because it’s your go-to guide for intimate wellness questions. Your Intimate Wellness Guru is an AI that explains the main types of personal lubricant, what to look for on a label, and which kind of product may fit what you have in mind, so you can shop with confidence instead of guessing in the aisle.
How your intimate guide works
- Choose how to talk. Chat with a woman or a man AI video host, or use text only.
- Ask anything about intimate wellness. Lube types, textures, what pairs with what, and how to read a product label.
- Get a clear suggestion. Your guide helps you narrow down the type of product that fits your needs.
- Stay in control. Save your chat if you like, or clear it any time.
Judgment-free sexual wellness questions
- No account and no contact details needed. A first name is optional.
- Unless you tap Save chats, your chat is removed from the chat window after about 2 hours. Saved chats are kept for up to 30 days. Content used to train or improve our AI may be kept longer. Clear my chat or Delete chats removes it from the chat window any time.
- Your chats are never sold and never used for ads. Chat content may be used to train and improve our AI.
- Please don’t share details that identify you or others because chats may be used to improve our AI. See our Privacy Policy.
- For adults 18+ only.
How to choose a lube: what your guide can explain
Not sure where to start? Your Intimate Wellness Guru walks you through the common types of personal lubricant (water-based, silicone-based, oil-based and hybrid), how texture and feel differ, and what to check on the label, including compatibility with toys and condoms as stated by the manufacturer. Always read a product’s label before use.
Lube Quiz: find your match in 4 quick questions
Just for fun and general guidance. Your quiz answers aren’t sent to us or saved. Always read a product’s label.
Please answer all 4 questions.
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Sexual wellness guide FAQ
What is Your Intimate Wellness Guru?
It’s an AI guide from Tender Lovin’ Care. It answers general intimate wellness questions and helps adults 18+ choose the right type of lube and intimate care product.
Is Your Intimate Wellness Guru a doctor?
No. It’s an AI guide, not a doctor, nurse or therapist. It gives general education and can’t diagnose, treat or prescribe. For pain, irritation, bleeding or anything that worries you, please see a licensed clinician.
How are my chats handled?
No account is needed. Unless you tap Save chats, your chat is removed from the chat window after about 2 hours. Saved chats are kept for up to 30 days. Chat content may be used to train and improve our AI, and content used that way may be kept longer. Clear my chat or Delete chats removes it from the chat window any time. Chats are never sold and never used for ads. Please don’t share details that identify you or others because chats may be used to improve our AI. See our Privacy Policy.
How do I choose the right lube?
Start with the type (water-based, silicone-based, oil-based or hybrid), then think about feel, how you’ll use it, and what the label says about toys and condoms. Your Intimate Wellness Guru can walk you through it step by step.
Can I talk to a woman or a man?
Yes. You can pick a woman or a man AI video host, switch at any time, or use text only.
Who is Tender Lovin’ Care?
Tender Lovin’ Care (Tenderlovin’ Care Inc.) is an intimate wellness company in Fort Lauderdale, FL. It offers intimate care products plus co-branding, private label and wholesale. Learn about us.
Can my business create its own intimate care line?
Yes. TLC offers co-branding and private label intimate care. Email james@tenderlovincare.co or contact us.
Sexual health and intimate hygiene: common questions
General education from public health sources, not medical advice. Talk with a licensed clinician about your own health.
Is it normal to use lube?
Yes. Lots of people use lube for comfort and enjoyment, at every stage of adult life. Choosing one is a normal part of self-care, and nothing to feel awkward about.
Which lubes work with latex condoms?
The CDC advises using water-based lubricants with latex condoms and avoiding oil-based products such as petroleum jelly, lotion or baby oil, which can weaken latex and cause the condom to break. Always check the product label too. Source: CDC, Condom Use.
How do I clean and store intimate toys?
Follow the toy maker’s cleaning and storage instructions, since materials differ. Clean toys before and after use, let them dry fully, and store them somewhere clean and dry.
Does lube expire?
Check the package. Many products print an expiration date or an open-jar symbol showing how many months they’re good for after opening. Keep the cap closed and store as the label directs.
Where can I get tested for STIs?
Ask your clinician, or use the CDC’s GetTested locator at gettested.cdc.gov to find testing near you. The CDC notes that many clinics offer confidential and free or low-cost testing.
When should I see a clinician?
See a licensed clinician for pain, irritation, burning, bleeding, unusual discharge or odor, sores, or anything that worries you. Your Intimate Wellness Guru can’t diagnose or treat.
How do I bring up lube with a partner?
Keep it light and positive: talk about what feels good, try a few options together, and treat it as part of enjoying each other. Not sure where to start? Ask your Intimate Wellness Guru for ideas.
Care tips for you
For women: vulva care
How should I care for the vulva and vagina?
ACOG, the professional organization for ob-gyns, suggests washing the vulva (the outer genital area) with plain, fragrance-free soap, or just water if you notice irritation, rinsing with cool or lukewarm water and patting dry. ACOG advises against douching and vaginal hygiene products such as sprays and deodorants, and explains that normal vaginal discharge helps keep the area clean. This is general guidance from ACOG, not a statement about any Tender Lovin’ Care product. Source: ACOG, Vulvovaginal Health.
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Your Intimate Wellness Guru is an AI guide and can make mistakes. It is not medical advice. Emergency? Call 911. In crisis? Call or text 988.